This is, of course, an absolute favorite, not just of mine and kids but friends and family as well so here you have it!. I will try my best to give measurements but keep in mind, I make it different every time, depending on the cheeses I have and of course who I am feeding. Mason likes it with tomatoes, Harrison likes it with bacon. One of my friends is vegetarian so sometimes I make it plan. In short, experiment, try new things with a staple recipe that is sure to please. I actually, don't start with a rue. I know many people swear by it but I think it makes the mac n cheese, well, grainy. I start with cream cheese. I use a whole brink, yup 8 oz. I cut it into cubes so it melts better. cut it right into the pan, add some milk, enough to cover the bottom, about a cup. I use a whisk and as the cream cheese starts to melt I add a little more milk about another cup. This will start your cream sauce. Use a low heat, you never want this to come to a boil. I start to add my cheeses, st